Tuesday, 4 June 2013

Trust?

Holla!~

So... I just realized that for 2013, I've only updated my blog once! Therefore, after three months, here's the second post for this year! (throws confetti~)

In these 3 months since I got back from PLKN, quite a lot of stuffs have happened which made me pretty occupied despite being a NEET (Not in Employment, Education or Training) and thus, that's why I haven't updated my blog for a while. .__.
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Okay, fine. That was just an excuse. The real reason; I'm too lazy to do it. XP

Anyway, back to the main topic.

Trust.

So, here's the story. Since I finished school; I met with quite a number of new people. What's with going to national service and then going to various scholarship interviews. It was great honestly, since I used to be cooped up and dislike socializing with strangers. It was definitely a great exposure for me. =)

As time passes by, I started to get even closer with 2 certain people. (Let me call em as A and B) We always hang out together no matter where we go. Truth be told, both of them were already close friends. So, you could say that I was sort of like the third party.

At first, everything was fine and hunky-dory until one day A started criticizing about B to me. Well, that's normal I guess since nobody's perfect. Of course there would be some stuffs that we don't like about someone. In the beginning, A only complained about petty stuffs but as time passes by, she started complaining about B more. Such as saying that she hates it when B do this and that and yada yada...

At the same time, without A knowing, B was also criticizing about A to me!!! (Yeah, I was stuck between two parties -_-") The funny thing was, they keeps on criticizing each other when actually they themselves are doing the stuffs that they keeps on criticizing on the other party. Just like a pot calling the kettle black.
However, on the surface. They still looked as close as ever. Always laughing and smiling together as if the fact that they always complained about each other never even existed.

As a result from being the one in the middle between these two parties, it certainly made me realized quite a few things.

1st-
The ability for a person to have a two faced identity is certainly scary.
2nd-
Before bad mouthing someone, it's better for you to look at a mirror first. Who knows, you might be doing all those unsightly stuffs yourself.
3rd-
Never completely trusts a person. Someone might looked nice in the front. But we would never know what's in their hearts.
But here, I'm not saying that we should not trust anyone. If you are already close with someone for years and as long as u know him/her they have never wronged you, I'm sure he/she certainly has no ill-meaning towards you and would be completely alright to be trusted. It's just that.. it might be a good idea to take precautions before you completely trusts someone.

After all, a famous poet once said;



So, that's it. Tata! Fi Hifzillah everyone! ;)

The awesome one, (XD)
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2 comments:

  1. Boleh x letakkan tnda like kat sni.. Aku rse mcm nk like byk kali.. Hahah !!

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    1. Hahah!! Rquest kat blogger! Wat suggestion :p
      Anyway,thx. ^^

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